Doctor says I don’t have herpes but now I’m worried I may. Please help!?!!

I went 3 days ago to urgent care. I orginally just had that big bump on my vulva. I asked the doc over and over does it look like herpes. She said no. it looks like an abcess and she said its infected. she also described how herpes , like its not a vesicle or some nature like that. she told me to use warm rags and gave antibotics if it gets worst. i said can you swab it. and she said there is nothing really to swab. TODAY I noticed a another small bump that you see in the pic as well on my outer thigh. does that look like herpes now or am im overreacting. or should i see another provider? its not painful or sore to touch really. im not in severe pain like majority of first outbreaks but if i keep touching it, then it will slighly hurt. Should i go back or give it time to heal. It cost money and long wait every time i go.

It honestly looks like an inflamed hair follicle to me, not a herpes sore

what about the smaller area on the left?

the thigh looks like a pimple. but the one on the labia does look like the start of a bartholoin cyst. Put warm compress and take some ibuprohen

hey girl , you know your body best!, keep an eye on it if it spreads more or if the " abcess" turns into an ulcer xx