



i have never had a cold sore in my life either and sometimes a red patch shows up on my lip too.. if it went away i would just watch to see if it actually blisters if it ever happens again
thanks so much for the reply! does the red patch ever itch or burn or feel tingly?
Sometimes people can transmit it even though they never displayed symptoms. Maybe he had cold sores when he was very young and never knew? Or maybe he really did have the virus laying dormant this entire time and the virus shed and spread to you.
Although cold sores do usually accompany the tingly/burning feeling, HSV is a very complex infection. Some people have symptoms so mild that they don’t even notice they are infected. They might not even look twice or might dismiss their symptoms as a rash or pimple. But don’t worry about it too much, its extremely common, there’s way too much social stigma surrounding it when it’s simply a skin condition. Just be cautious because now you’ll be able to transmit the virus, especially when or if you have an active sore again.
Also, oral herpes can spread to the genitals during oral sex and cause genital herpes, so try to abstain from oral sex if you have a sore inside or around the mouth.