okay. so i started with a new partner. it's been about a month since we started. about a week ago we got a hotel n use lube. i never use lube. the day we checked out of the hotel my vagina was feeling a little in pain but i thought it was just from being together for 2 days. but for the last past 5 days it have been itching burning on and off and so has my anus. he gave me oral. I'm worried i might have herpes. no bumps have shown yet. my vagina and anus is really red.My vagina looked fine the 1st day but it looks more n more red every day. it feel raw everywhere but the itch is going away slowly. I'm freaking out.
do you have any lesions on your vaginal area? I don’t see anything except the little cuts around your anus.
no, but i know it takes 20 days. maybe longer. that’s why i was wondering if this was the start of the herpes outbreak