Does this sound like genital herpes????!

Embarrassing, but about 3 days ago my butt crack was extremely itchy, the day after that i noticed a 2.5 inch tear between my buttcrack and the day after that i had small skin colored bumps. currently it stings really bad but im trying not to scratch and make the split worse than it is. i work overnight and have had a hard time managing my sleep and have been rushing to work during that time and not really showering. i can tend to be sweaty between my butt, in addition i havent had sex in about 3 month. could this be a herpes outbreak?!!?

It honestly could be anything hard to say without a picture. You should see a doctor to be safe.

its been about 2 days since i had them now and doesnt itch but its sore & my lymph nodes in my groin is swollen for the first time ever

It could be a fissure and it could be herpes best to get it looked at.