I had sex with a sex worker around 18 days ago. Around 10/15 second oral and then the rest was protected sex. 30/40 seconds of unprotected grinding. She didn’t have any lesions from what I saw, I know they’re not required for transmission. Within about a day I noticed a big red spot on my buttocks which didn’t look like a herpes lesion nor did it burst. It went away after a week or so. After 10 days I got a red pimple on my hand which started to scare me.
The pimple hasn’t fully gone and was painless, even when I touch it.