Feeling like I've let my self down in ways, training to be strong miltary trained, hmm by now you'd think you could let this go I've said it before should be a skill we master
It's irrelevant the conversation I'm referring to the person too.
Sometimes I think the cause we use is the reason we get to excuse ourselves happy to win no matter the cost.
We should stop and not lose sight of why people are here shouldn't matter whom is right or wrong is it not all just word play holding a person accountable for maybe not choosing the correct words
I feel bad today for trying to justify my actions that posinaly pushed someone away from help and the site lost touch with what mattered the most and became indulged in a point scoring contest on words and the use of them failing to realise there's a person at the other end of the screen reading digesting the information the person in question resulted into changing their name and I failed to notice that is something I'll never forget they asked for me to leave it maybe the embarrassment I put on them on technicalities was to much to bare the public humiliation a step to far
Now I fear the person has left the site and I myself pushed them further away from the help they needed
What can I say I feel empty I feel disgusted In myself how did the plea to stop slip past an otherwise hypo-vidgalant person in becoming to the aid of someone else I became the bully of another
For what purpose I feel no better sometimes we have to learn to walk away is the biggest and best thing to do so disappointed it lost its meaning and became a need to prove a point and someone else suffered for it at my hand that's not what I'm about at all
When you are on a forum about depression and you call someone " you pathetic little man", even though they never insulted anyone, you just disagree with what they are saying, you are WRONG and a bully. No matter how you try to justify it you are WRONG.
I'm no justifying it however you clearly did to be honest follow the conversation properly it's my opinion the person insulted many it's irrelevant though your right in I should not on labelled the person due to their mistakes
Yet you had to try to justify the personal insults and think it's ok just because you precluded your excuse with "I'm not justifying it however ".
It was wrong no matter how you try to justify it.
I'm sorry you don't like it but it's my opinion the person in question is indeed a pathetic little man my opinion has not changed of that however it's my opinion and I should never have called him such we all make mistakes like his mistakes the difference is I can fess up to mine this person couldn't
It is also my opinion that this person went to attack a vulnerable person without provocation I merely made the target of their intentions myself instead the reasoning behind the pathetic little man is clear you do not ever attack a vulnerable person this makes the person pathetic the fact he ran only re-enforces my opinion as he did so with out admitting his fault
Again that's my opinion yours may differ if there is a bully some one needs to stand up to them it's how and why there was a 2nd world war and many wars both cival and not
What I think we need to master is not to make a victim out of the bully that's what I'm saying I did that and I admit to it
That is some passive aggressive tap dancing you've got goin on there. Still justifying calling someone a "pathetic little man" just because you disagree with him. You just have to justify yourself don't you. Can't just admit you were wrong and let it go. That says a lot about you. I maintained a civil conversation and never insulted anyone so I didn't deserve your personal insults.
Hello Chris
I do apologise for my opionion of you but what I said was true and still remains fact
I'm sorry my opinion of you was changed but that was your own doing I'm afraid
Chris
Look you need to work on yourself to I don't know what to say in one message you dis-engage yourself for yourself and say him then you personalised it with i
Him and or I are the same person you have to come to terms with your faults just like we all do myself included
Once again you can't help but follow your "apology " with a "but" it's your fault. I did nothing but engage in a civil discussion. You are the one who resorted to the personal insults. That's all there is to it. No more " but's".
I feel sympathy for you Chris I do because you don't know when you are wrong I don't think it's an act or ignorant I think you lost your way that's all you forgot what it was like to stand for justice and honour and have honour only you can find yourself
I will not play your game and publicly humiliate you again I proved you wrong once for all to see I won't do it again if people chose to investigate it themselves then that's for them to do
I will not throw you to the wolves again as much as you tempt it some of us acknowledge our flaws we do what we can to change them your not at that stage yet
No mattet wat the discussuion i need to know the person im talkin to is who they say they are xxx
I have no idea what that even means.
As in catfish the show. Xx
Except you never proved me wrong or humiliated me. All you did was vehemently disagree with me and dish out personal insults. You can't even own up to what you did without placing the blame on someone else.
Just mean u were chris then don dons with a space now outte here just wondering why xx its just somethin i dont understand . Xx
So I changed my nick name, big deal.
Ok Chris I'm sure you believe that your actions speak volumes chris
You were like a hare in head light you froze like a scared rabbit you then changed your name to don don the same name as the original postie though you were. It her and you pleaded for me to stop and let it go
Your a weak man once strong now a former of hisself you need to come to terms with that sir like I need to admit my faults I do I should never have voiced my opinion to you although I'm entitled to it
Okie dokies lovely jubbly x