Dont know what to do freaking out

Sexual health
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im 28 year onld male, just got back from docter have not got resulst back yet but he said it looks like herpes. i think i got it from a one night stand laast week i feel stupid, an dont know what to do. I have sores not real painful but it seem to be getting worse. Any help from you guys will be appreciated, i feel like my life is over

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i have just found out myself today hun . i have looked at google with loads of videos where people made me feel better and that there is loads of people out there with it i know how ur feeling i told the guy i was seeing about it he dont want to know me now keep asking him if he would but never gets back. makes me think people like hat dont like you for who u r can do one .

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I'm sorry, I know the feeling, I'm going through it now as well. If it is herpes, it will get so much worse, so be proactive now. I have been using raw manuka honey and tea tree oil. It is supposed to make it end quicker. I found those out from Google.People say it gets better, but moving on once you know seems impossible, I know.

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thanks for the fast REPLAY. doctor didnt tell me anything an i dont know what to do an i feel like i cant talk to anybody about it a feel so ashamed. does anybode have any advice 

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Did your dr. Give you amy medication? It does make you feel disgusting and embarrassed, these forums aRe lifesaver because there's no judgements and you can ask honest questions and get honest answers.

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Thanks I will give the honey an tea tree oil a try, has it been helping you?

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yes he did im getting it filled right now, an thanks again guys for the help 

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Been using the honey since Friday, I think I am almost done. No new blisters as of today. They burn a little when you apply, but it does feel better. Also black tea is good, lie the bags on the sores, that's soothing as well.

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For more information, read this:

https://patient.info/forums/discuss/genital-herpes-useful-info-for-those-looking-for-answers-like-me--482438

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Prayer oil of oregano and antivirals

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If that's what it is life is far from over. I've been positive 10 years with HSV-2. It's SOOOOOO common! If you find out a positive result you'll have mixed emotions. You'll be p*ssed off, sad, etc....but you'll be ok and there is life beyond it. There is even love beyond it. My situation resulted from a total a**hole WHO KNEW he had it! Promise though...You'll be ok.

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I lost my wife of 14 years do to my diagnoses

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Sorry to hear that my partner I was seeing just said he could not risk it still trying to get over it and tell him he safe of we are

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Meaning she left you?

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Laura he's simply not the one for you. I understand people's choice to stay or go...but if they truly love you...Herpes will not make them run. So keep moving. He's not the right one for you.

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Thanks I got told he only wanted one thing and I didn't give it . I told him as I trusted him so much but he won't even talk to me I can't get over it as only found out yesterday and told him so we could move on x

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Nikki, have you dated, had sex since your diagnosis? Told a partner? How many people have you dated/told?

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Repeat your question

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Thanks for all the support it make me feel a little better, but from some of you guys stories im real worried about dating, being that im singel an have never been good with the dating scene anyways a feel like i will never find someone that will accepted me, also i feel if i do tell someone after getting to know them they will tell everyone especially if the know my circle of friends an family. How do you guys deal with this an please tell me it gets easer, i fell like running away an hiding under a rock

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You need to confirm that you definitely have GH and which type first. Type makes a big difference, imo, so try to relax until you get your results back.