I am in my mid-twenties, and have not yet had sex. I have a very frustrating problem with my penis glans and genital area for 10 months now. It started in September 2017 when I kept my foreskin pulled back for an extended period of time. The bare glans rubbed against clothing for less than an hour, which was uncomfortable, so I stopped doing it.
Two days later, the first symptoms started, though not initially in my glans, weirdly enough. Instead, the area above the penis, the groin and my rectum started itching really badly. Over the next two weeks, the itching subsided and everything seemed to return to normal.
Then, two weeks after the first symptoms, I started to feel a tingling sensation in my penis. A few days later, I noticed a thick coating of something on my glans in the shower. Washing removed most of it, but an orange patch of skin was revealed on the glans, at the same spot that had rubbed against the clothing. The doctor I went to said it was nothing, so I waited.
Ever since the first symptoms, I’ve had a wide range of frequently changing symptoms, from unnaturally white skin to red bumps and patches, but overall the situation has gotten worse and worse (though there have been periods of relative calm where the glans looked better for a while).
The most prominent symptoms on the glans now are redness (mainly on the weird patch of skin), dryness, wrinkliness, glans sticking to the foreskin and soreness of the penis head.
I’ve been to the doctor many times. I’ve tried antifungal cream, plain vaseline, hydrocortison and antibacterial (fusific acid) cream, all of which appeared to be helping at first, but the symptoms always returned immediately after stopping the treatment.
The dryness of the glans has since become much worse. While there originally wasn’t really any pain, now the glans have a burning sensation and soreness after peeing. Other than that, the formerly high sensitivity of the glans is completely gone, and I can now touch and even rub the glans without feeling much. The glans also no longer produce any natural lubricant at all, even when aroused. With lube, masturbation is possible, but without it there is pain from the dryness (ironically, masturbation doesn't really make the situation worse in the long-run, just causes intense redness and miscoloration for a while). Showering makes the glans look a little better (aside from the ever-present red patch), but soon after it dries up again.
Another weird symptom that I’ve had since the beginning is that a part of skin above the penis (between the penis and the stomach) itches whenever I wear clothes over it. There’s nothing visible there, it just itches on contact with clothing, particularly when while walking. It’s strong enough to be annoying, but does fluctuate in how intense it is. I'm sure it's related to the problem, because it started out at the same time as the other symptoms. There have also been weird red blotches around my lips recently - I'm unsure whether those are related to the problem at all or not.
I am desperate and at my wit’s end. The problem has kept me depressed for much of these past 10 months. Any indication as to what it is would be greatly appreciated.