I am 30 this August and I genrally did not have trouble having an erection.But for the past 2 weeks my desire to mastubate or have sex has reduced.I get turned on only while watching porn and I am unable to maintain an erection even while watching porn.I had anxiety before but I did not have any erection issue even then.
Any help here is appreciated.
I believe porn is like alcohol. You can get too tolerant of it and more is needed to have the same effect. I think if you give it a break for three weeks or so your normal reactions (and erections) will proably return.
Have you gone to a doctor to find out if it is a physical problem.
Have your kidneys, prostate or sperm count checked. Or your testosterone levels checked.
I am not a doctor.
When my kidneys started to fail, I could not maintain an erection. But since I am dialysis, the problem has gotten worse. I too depend on gay porn to at least get an erection, but not to spill sperm. Besides being an xxy male, I am sterile, so no viable sperm comes out.
It is best to seek the advice from a medical professional to check if there is something wron with your sex organs at age 30. Good luck in your quest