Hi Sylvia
I am C282Y/C282Y, my husband H63D/H63D, and son C282Y/H63D, diagnosed after 9 years of hellish symptoms after a hysterectomy (me, anyway). I have been living with it for 27 years and have spent a lot of time trying to find answers such as yours, because a lot of my symptoms never went away after de-ironing.
I just had a blank trying to remember my HFE genes - this happens a lot with my memory since HH. I had super memory before this.
Any depression I had was related to not getting a diagnosis until my hips broke up because of avascular necrosis caused by HH, and the resulting inabilities and pain since because of a botched surgery. But I am constantly fighting fatigue and lack of motivation.
However, my husband ended up with Hodgkin's Lymphoma, not proven to be caused by HH, and severe long term depression. He reacted badly to anti-depressants. Finally his dr thought of Vit B12 and my husband was very deficient in vit B12 to the point of causing neurological problems. I was already giving him tablets but some people cannot absorbe B12 by tablets. Weekly injections, (now 3 monthly) made a huge difference, he came home humming and said hello to the neighbour for the first time in years, and started tackling projects in his workshop. Whereas before if he went into the workshop he just sat staring at his feet and I would have to keep checking on him. He would also stare at a blank tv screen inside.
Vit D is also very important. Some of us just cannot absorb vit D by tablets, but the practitioners brand Vit D3 drops forte work immediately.
Eliminate sugars and starches from diet. I have found this helps immensely. Apart from reducing fatty liver which is caused by sugars and starches (not fat), it also decreases chances of diabetes, both of which we are prone to.
As I have attended a couple of HH conferences, I have spoken in person to a number of prominent HH researchers from around the world. One in particular researches how it affects the brain. It is medically known that iron can get into the brain, as evidenced by MRIs and autopsies, however, the researcher says they have not been able to replicate it yet (in mice). Therefore, the everyday gp will not accept that iron can be absorbed by the brain.
However, it is known that the hypothalamus tests our blood, and under the hypothalamus is the pituitary gland which controls our hormones which are also affected by HH. Which reminds me, have his testosterone checked, as reduced testosterone causes fatigue, weakness, depression, memory, and probably more. HH is a hormone thief. My husband had to have his testosterone increased and now has an injection every 3 months.
A quick referral to hypothalamus functions:
Body temperature
Thirst
Appetite and weight control
Emotions
Sleep cycles
Sex drive
Childbirth
Blood pressure and heart rate
Production of digestive juices
Balancing bodily fluids
I have real problems with body temperature. I am often sweating when it is cold, and shivering when it is hot. My internal body temp cannot stabilise itself.
There is a Prof Creitchley/Chrichley?? in a Belgium university hospital (he is from Scotland) who researches iron absorption in the brain and has proven that iron crosses the blood brain barrier but I will have to spend time searching for his correct name, as there is also a person with similar name who researches kidney and HH. HIs book is terribly expensive even on Amazon, but you can read extracts.
I ended up with a microadenoma on my pituitary gland which upset my hormones terribly even though I was using HRT and it was not diagnosed for 6 years.
So in the first instance, get him to have his Vit B12, Vit D, and testosterone checked. Actually a full check of all his pituitary gland hormones would be helpful. I am sure the dr already checks his thyroid, but make sure of this. Ask for copies of all blood tests to keep, so you can keep an eye on it all yourselves. A good CoQ10 (practitioners brand) and vit E is said to be good for those with HH.
After a few years of vx, they started having problems getting my thick blood out, so I started taking 100mg aspirin daily. Huge difference. I also felt like the aspirin started clearing out clogged up cells which caused heaviness and muscle pain. (Layman's language). Reducing this heaviness, now helps me get through the day, although I am done by 7pm if not earlier.
I hope you find a solution that helps.