Embarrassed urethra pain

So I was drunk one night and I inserted an object into my urethral and immediately I felt a jolt of pain shoot up my whole body. I've tried to tell the doctor my pain is not due to an std or prostate. I've passed all my STD tests and the pain started right after my drunken encounter.

There looks to be a bump on the inside of the urethra that is where the pain originated and goes up the shaft of the penis. Sometimes it's stinging pain sometimes it is a throbbing pain it changes

When I ejaculate it stings bad for days. I went to the urologist and the doctor thinks it's prosititious.

I've reintersted the fact that the pain started after the encounter. It has been 4 months. I was on antibiotics and nothing seems to help the pain other than drinking water and not ejaculating.

I'm scared that I might have ruined my life. It's very depressing for me. Any suggestions?

When I lay down it hurts more and the bump is in the opening of the utethra

Did you talk with the doctor about the "bump" in the urethra?

 

OMG! Have you thought of corrective surgery? You should run away from alcohol and never drink again!

I'm not trying to be insensitive, but man cherish what you have. We are on here because of different circumstances. You're in my prayers!

Corrective surgery?

Yes, for your self-inflicted wound.

My father-in-law is an ER surgeon he said that may be necessary.

It's discolored. Very small but it's noticeable not big and white. He said there is nothing that can be done that time might heal it. Every time I tell him about it he comes

Back with hypothetical questions, "well if this is not an STD, what do we do then?"

Your the damn doctor that shouldn't be asking me these questions. Is the bump scar tissue. I have no idea. I feel like this doctor doesn't really care.

I did not get a cystoscopy and I feel like the pain goes to my testicles often.

Idk how I'm supposed to have a regular life and relationship with something like this.

Don't jump to conclusions, Dennis.  It may well be prostatitis causing the ejaculation pain - that's such a common symptom and will go away once the prostatitis is cured.

Q:  Is he treating you for prostatitis, or no?

Currently no. He was considering putting me on flow max. My problem is all of this pain stared right after the incident. I feel like this would have happened independent of "the incident"

It's small scar tissue it seems like. But it also seems like the pain switches sides from the right side to the left and shoots up. But the object didn't even go 2 cm in. Not far at all.

Embarrassing time for me

You will not get an answer from Drs.  

Okay so.....

I'm a little confused.

Were you having the pain when ejaculating Before you inserted something, or did the pain only begin After you did the insertion?

One day I messed around and inserted an object and instantly it did not feel right. Ever since then I've had pain. Put on antibiotics. It seems to be okay if I drink a lot of water and don't Masterbate.

But once I start master stung a gain and ejaculating it hurts.

Sorry. Hard to type this all in my phone. Before the insertion. It never hurt to ejaculate.

The penis is filled with muscles and nerves. A urologists job is to make sure you pee, Dennis. Maybe you should try some pelvic floor rehabilitation ??

1) what is that

2) what doctor would I go to for penile / urethra pain due to trama

Also during the urtherial pain I get tingling feeling in my feet and testicles

Dennis,

you probably caused injury o your urethra and now you probably have a scar tissue forming that will sooner or later cause problem with urinary flow.

Did you bleed after foreign object insertion into urethra? It is not good idea to insert anything in such sensitive area because that is one way street so you violated it with wrong direction. Cystoscopy is a good idea to check if any damage was done.

If no damage than let it time to heal.

There was no blood at all. And also the object did not do very far. 2 cm at the most. So embarrassed. I have no clue wtf I was thinking.

That being said. Would that cause up and down my whole urethra if it was just inserted slightly into the utethra