Had anterior cemented ceramic on plastic thr a week ago. Had to overcome phobia of hospitals so I was quite distressed before the op. It went well but after spinal block wore off I was in agony. I managed to get a couple of hrs sleep after morphine. The following day my elderly Mum was rushed into hospital. My partner was first to ensure she settled in after leaving me at midnight.
Day 2 post op: Was walking well on crutches and couldve been discharged except I was constipated. after 4 lots of various laxatives that made my belly gurgle all night and kept me from sleeping i eventually went and was allowed home.
First night at home my darling dog became seriously ill and was put to sleep. My partner and I were totally distraught and had no sleep for 2 nights.
Im walking well had a few hrs sleep but my leg is painful from muscles repairing so im up and down on sofa the chair then walk then bed then chair. I feel emotionally drained and just want to feel normal. Anyone else find it uncomfortable no matter whether they are in a chair or bed? My leg is black n blue from hip dow to back of knee. Swelling is not too bad as I RICE a lot. Im eating propely but constantly feel I need to empty my bowels. Hence why I am reluctant to go out other than for a walk.
Yes Sue it takes a few days to settle down but you will be fine, all mixed up and the system is mixed up with all the operation stresses, you will be fine in a few days I assure you.
Yes I too have a fear of hospitals so I know exactly how you feel.
I am sorry you mum is not well and I hope she is ok.
I am really sad you lost your dog. I know how that feels too been thought that enough times myself.
Get yourself some pineapple juice it is the best to help you with toilet problems and is all natural. Other than that get some tinned pineappl in natural juice. That will also help.
I am 8 weeks post op and satill swollen. It will take a good while for everything to settle down. Don't be in a rush. Just keep up with your excersizes and keep mobile and you will be fine.
Keep your chin up and I hope everything will be ok with you soon,. .
Not only have you got the physical and emotional stress of the op, you have got other emotional drains and worries. This must have compounded the op effects. Yes difficult to get comfy in the first few days, guts and wee were also a problem for me. Settled after about 4 days. Just be gentle with yourself it will get better
AWW sue you came to the right place, Sorry for all your woes and hope your Mum is ok now. Give yourself time and slow down, I was up every 2 hours for toilet during the first 2 weeks but it sorts itself out eventually. (((((((big hugs))))) keep up with the walking it will all come right in the end.....xx
What a lot you have been through in a couple of days.
If you are going out for a walk so soon you are doing really well. I could hardly do anything the first week and certainly didn't go out of the house walking. I didn't really start doing any walking till week three and then not very far.
the only time I was comfortable was for that short time just after taking pain killers! I'm sure in a few days you will start to feel a lot better.
Hi Sue, I am so sorry that you are hurting so much and send you big hugs, I am sure you have read the Rainbow Bridge before but it has helped me so often. I live alone and my animals keep me going....
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Again, love and hugs, my heart goes out to you. Dot xxx
omg you have had a terrible time of it, what you describe is all quite normal in the first few days and weeks, hang in there I can assure you it does get better, I am 7 months post opp, on my left and I felt the same as you for the first month , now I'm going back this month to get the other one done, like Gillycat said, you have come to the right place,
I wish you a speedy recovery and to your mum also,
I am doing so well with walking. I am comfortable using just one crutch after a week and walked a good half a mile today.
What I find difficult is the constant moving from chair to walking to bed and only catching 2 hrs sleep at a time due to having to lay on my back. Ive tried using the pillow to lie on side but was too worried about my operated leg slipping over the midline.
The op itself has a lengthy recovery time due to the invasive nature of the surgical procedure but the worse part is the emotional rollercoaster ride that comes with it.
Losing my 15 yr old darling dog and having an elderly mum rushed into hospital sent me spiralling down even further.
Mum is still in hospital having tests but not worsened so thats a godsend. I have a partner whos been a rock but obviously they are suffering loss of a companion, dealing with me and Mum. So Im going to concentrate on my recovery to relieve us of some pressure. Wishing everyone a speedy return to fitness. Nite, nite. x
Dear Sue ... Just allow your self to feel all the emotions - it is okay ... it really is ... you are dealing with so much and all at once .. you are a trooper - you have gone through the agony of pre-op jitters, had the surgery, and are now going through the mourning stages (someone on this wonderful forum wrote that when I was feeling so incredibly sad) - There are no words to describe the feelings when losing a pet, but we, who have lost one, know this pain ... come back here anytime - try to be very gentle with your self today - no need to push your self to do anything you are not up to -- I find this one of the most challenging things .. to actually allow myself to do nothing - resting and being at peace where we are is the best some times .... (and going to the bathroom is exercise enough!!!)
Hi sue! Poor you! It sounds as though your not having a good time! So sorry to hear about your dog! What breed? How is your mother? Life isn't easy! But please please take it easy! You will get stronger each day! Sit out if you can while we have good weather! Regards Amanda
Hi Renee, it's all a bit surreal at the moment. The loss of my dog hit me hard. Mum is being cared for and not worsened, I had a 3hr sleep last night and had been out for a few hours with my sister.
I'm walking ok don't find it comfortable to sit for long especially without legs raised. Im dumbfounded how others say they were pain free after the op. I feel like my butt has been kicked by a horse. A Shire at that!
Surreal is the right word Sue !! at least to me - going through the motions - no wonder after everything that happened to you ... I wish I could be more encouraging .... sometimes it helps to just accept that this is of you feel .... so what ... it will get better .... so hang in there - warm hug
Had problems with rumbling tummy and constant trips to loo which has settled today. I also got 6rs sleep (in total) last night so for the first time since my op have felt normal.
This forum and your encouragement has been a Godsend so big thank you from me to all.
I miss my little dog like mad but am on the road to recovery.x
Good to hear Sue ... Of course you miss your beloved pet ... I so believe that they are with us - our little guardian angels - just as dedicated and unconditional loving, maybe even more so - warm hug
you are being so brave. I am so sorry about your little dog, it is so painful. I believe in the Rainbow Bridge, it comforts many people and it's lovely.
hope your Mum is improving. You are past the worst, it will be all good from now on. Everyone is thinking of you on this great forum!