ive been here before. i saw the psychiatrist last wednesday, i was feeling good last couple of days, i dont have to go back to him, dont have to change medication, but Im feeling so down again and so very tired of everyrhing.
It really started when i married for the 2nd time...sometimes i feel happy. ut there are so many times i feel so unhappy, im 60 so not young anymore, i would love to take up my things and move back to england, with my 2 dogs, but it all has to do with money.....I dont know what to do anymore....divorce...no divorce....its all so difficult...I know nobody can really help me, but i thought just write it down....
Not an easy decision to make astrid. I have a friend who moved back to the UK at the age of 71 and seems quite happy and settled now even though she has very little money. Don't forget that if you are a UK national you should be entitled to benefits, either JSA (looking for work) or ESA (on the sick). You would also get housing benefit and council tax reduction as well.
I seems like an upheavel specially if you are suffering from depression but what is the alternative? Staying with a man you might not love anymore? It will get harder the longer you leave it as no one gets any younger.
It sound like you aren't sure whether to continue with your marriage or not. You need to work out what you want and then follow it. You don't have to worry about divorce at this stage - if you want to up sticks and move just do it. x
hi Hypercat, thanks for your reply... yes I know, its a decision I really have to make myself, but its not an easy one. I have to work out for myself what I want with the the rest of my life. and when ive made that decision i shouldnt look back anymore. x
No it's not easy Astrid and I wish you luck with it! xx