Me and my partner went away for Valentine's Day we've been dating 10 months, while sat in a restaurant I saw a half naked picture of another woman! He acted all shifty and when I questioned him about it he told me he took a picture of the calendar at his work! The next day he told me he lied and he got it off a website to show his mate! I asked why and he laughed and said coz she's fit this has totally knocked me down and I don't know if he's telling the truth or not I cant seem to pick myself up and brush it off
Not sure this belongs in the depression forum but I'll answer it anyway.
This really is a question of trust becuase whether he is telling the truth or not, if you don't trust him the relation will hit the rocks. I dont know if he is an honest peron or not, thats for you to decide.
Secondly I assume you saw the photo on the phone? Ask to see it. You should be able to tell where the picture came from that. If he is cageyabout his phone maybe you should ask why, I don't mind if my wife looks on my phone, I have nothing to hide. TBH men always look at half naked/naked women online we can't help ourselves lol So he may be telling the truth but if so why did he lie to begin with?
Bottom line is if you feel you cannot trust him whats the point?
Hi Vic,
She might be "Fit" as he put it, but it doesn't mean he will ever meet her. That's the sort of thing these days, many people say, even I say it and I'm 51 in a wheelchair!! So, what's my chances?? lol If I were you I would just give it the brush off and get on with life... There's more to life than just websites girls!!! Remember, they get paid loads to pose anyway, it is not some one you would meet down the street!
Regards,
Les.
To me it sounds like something you'd do when younger and not in a serious relationship. If you're feeling like its knocked you down then i guess you have to ask yourself will you be able to get over your disappointment in him on this issue or not? And sorry you're depressed because of him hurting you like this? Just checking if this is right, because of what i want to say next, if he depresses you then i don't think this relationship will be healthy for your mind. Nick.