My husband a couple of weeks ago for a 22 year old he was having an affair with her under my roof she is carrying his child which she conceived under my roof while I was asleep how could he after 27 years of marriage. he use to wcatch things on TV at his mums about people who had affair and he said our wedding vows ment the world to him and how could anyone do something like that to someone the loved and were married to and he wouldn't ever do that to me. And the woman if you can call her that called me mum and him dad and now look she is carrying his baby. What am I support to do now I am disabled and my one true love is now in love with a22 year old I just don't want to carry on living with out him he was my rock my world my soul mate and now he's gone each and every day gets harder and harder I carnt live like this
Oh my gosh... I feel so bad for you. I can't imagine how u must feel. I'm at a loss for words.
Hi Shirley, I'm sorry I can't imagine how you must feel. I know if I was in your situation I would be devastated but you don't need someone like that in your life, he is clearly a waste of space if he could do that to you. She's 22 it won't last, not only because of her age but because of the way it came about. He'll either get bored of her or she'll find someone else's marriage to destroy. It might take you a long time to get over but you'll eventually find comfort in the fact that you've escaped it because if it wasn't her he went away with it would be someone else later on down the line. If you're feeling this low you should think about going on antidepressants to try and get you through and if you're already on them maybe ask to up your dose. I hope you find strength.
My advice would be to phone the Samaritans as soon as possible and talk it out with them.
You can say what you really feel to them in absolute confidence and you should feel much better afterwards.
oh how I feel for you. It brings back memories of half a century ago. My father did something of similar despitciality (new word? Who cares) he even threw his perfidy in my mother's face. She was bedridden with MS at the time. I have tears for my mother yet and now let them be for you too. What you suffer is so unimaginably awful. The agony my mother suffered and now you too was so awful to behold. You may not be alone but how can you be comforted.
do you have children? They will suffer as I and my siblings did. Please live for them. In all your pain they need you. if they are adult, they need you. I was 19 at the time of the incident of casting in my mother's face that she was useless. I have never witnessed anything more cruel. Please live . My mother could never really blame him. She loved him and went to her grave about two years later in desperate sorrow yet still loving him.
I hope my typing is ok. My eyes are full of tears for you and my mother. I am so sorry for you. I hope I may pray that somehow your pain may be eased and some comfort found for your affliction. I hope you don't mind if I do.
My heart goes out to you. You will get through this just as I will get through my current tough time (although it feels smaller compared to yours). It will pass. Contact friends and family? Find some people to support you. Keep posting.