Lesley - sorry to be so blunt, but are you planning on more children.
I know in my case after years of problems with heavy bleeding, multiple D & C's only to be told all was well, we are preserving your fertility, WHAT, husband had already had Vasectomy years previous, and we had been married 30 years, with 2 adult children. I was not planning an having more children.
All excuses from what I could see from the Dr's point of view.
In the end had a massive heamorage, at home in the middle of the night, Dr's told me if I hadn't woken up when I did, I may not have woken, 3 units of blood later.
Presented at hospital, Dr's decided it was hormonal, made me very ill with huge overdose of hormones, started vomiting, and couldn't stop, they had to bring in the chemo drugs in the middle of the night, to stop me vomiting.
D & C following day diagnosed endometiral cancer, feet didn't touch the ground after that, Surgery a few days later to remove, uterus, ovaries, and fallopian tubes, also took sample of lymph glands to check if cancer had moved out of uterus.
From my understanding us bigger girls should not overlook the possibility that we have endometiral cancer, very slow growing, but even so if ignored just as deadly, apparently we are at increased risk, and only symptoms are heavy bleeding, never stopping bleeding, (not heavy all the time), but enough to be wearing tampons, or pads, also break through bleeding after periods have stopped.
After I had hysterectomy I developed what they call traumatic change of life, would not wish that on anyone, they had to put me on a very high dose of HRT to stop soaking bedclothes with sweat as fast as they could change me, 5 minutes later nurses came to check on me, and I was lying in a pool of water, my own sweat.
The drips they put me on were not copping with the outgoing sweat/liquid, and I got into real trouble with veins shutting down, on the verge of a cut down to a vein, when a senior nurse from chemotherapy, apparently she was considered the hospital expert on getting good veins, found a deep one, got a needle into it, and that held me for a few more days until HRT kicked in.
But here I am the other side, after a very short recovery of about 6 weeks, some time ago now, but no further problems at all. Best thing that ever happended to me, and the savings with hygene products, I did notice the difference in the budget.