Hi,
So Ive been experiencing some pain during intercourse over the past 5-6 days, but i suspected it was just a minor tear or general soreness. When we tried on Thursday and Friday it hurt too much to continue.
On saturday, I noticed some tenderness in my bikini area. Which, at the time, I believed was just razor burn like ive had many times before (had just shaved the day before)
When i woke up on Sunday, i felt absolutely awful. 102 fever all day, EXTREMELY painful urination and swollen tonsils. When i examined myself in the mirror I noticed several red bumps that i hadnt seen before, on the upper area of the butt closer to the vagina. And after taking a closer look, one small bump on the tip of my clitoris. All are painful to touch. Also can see a tiny bump under my mouth on the skin… very small
I went to urgent care today (Monday) and he diagnosed me with a mild UTI… which doesnt feel very mild from my end. Going back tomorrow to get a swab to test for herpes
My question is… if my boyfriend performed oral sex on me throughout this week (i believe he did on Saturday as well) did i give this to him?
Something else to note is that I showed negative for HSV type 1 and 2 from my 3 blood tests Sept-November before we were exclusive.