Found my only 16 year old daughter hanged and dead her wardrobe.
Feel as though I want to die too.
I am so very sorry for your loss. There’s really no words to express my sympathy. I’m sending up prayers for you and your daughter.
I couldn’t not answer you. Just so sad for you, I really hope you have a lot of support. I only have one daughter and couldn’t imagine losing her in this way. What could I possibly say that is going to make any difference right now. Jane, please don’t deal with this alone, you need to be supported. Life can be so cruel. Here if you need to chat.
OH Jane I am so very sorry for your lose. That is a horrible thing for any parent to have to go through. I wish I had some words that could help in your healing. I can definitely understand your desire to not go on but it is not what I believe to be the right choice. For whatever reason your daughter chose to end her life does not mean that is your only choice. Allow yourself to mourn. Cry, scream whatever it takes. Maybe see a counsellor or find a support group for parents like yourself who have suffered a lose. But please don't give up. Live for her, for the life she cut short. If you can try and learn and understand how she felt to come to that decision. And in time if you wish use that knowledge you've gained to help others. This will be a lifelong heartache to carry and I'm so sorry that you have this in your life. But please don't give up. You are a valuable person in this world and can do much good to honor your daughter.
With much love and prayers.
My god Jane I’m so sorry for you. There are no words to express and nothing would make it better anyway. Do you have a support network? Family? Friends? If you’re feeling desperate can you call the Samaritans?
Oh no, oh my God. Oh my God. What can we do for you. I am so so so very sorry. You poor thing. Please go and get help for yourself. Your daughter is with God now and she is protected. You will need to get help for yourself you need guidance and plenty of support.
Please go, go and get guidance. Call your doctor or go to a hospital . I am so sorry. Please go and get help and you are always welcome to come back here anytime
Jane
I cannot tell you that I know how you feel. I know that you are sad, shocked and hurting. You need support. You need somebody to go to so that they can hold you and comfort you and let you cry. Have you called your doctor ? Any family members to come and stay with you? Friends? The church? Please get some support.
Dear, dear Jane there are no words and there will never be any words to say to you. I can't even stand the thought of you finding your precious baby in that condition.
Please though we will not be able to take the grief from you..that we will walk with you every step of the way. Write..rant..scream. Whatever you need to do.
God bless,
Diane
OMG I can't imagine how you must feel. There is nothing I can say to make it better but am going to give you a very big hug. I am so sorry. xx
Oh thanks for your condolences. Just watched programme about a couple with 20 children. Unfortunately she had one miscarriage, but the whole programme was difficult to watch as the family with all those children were so happy.
Thank you all for your condolences. I don't know what to do with myself. I know I have to live with the fact that she has just gone, it's as though she has suddenly disappeared into thin air. I know no one can do anything about it, but I'm missing her so much I just felt like reaching out to people on line.
Thank you so much for your condolences. Yes it's a good thing that people do good in honour of their children that have died., but I don't know what to do. I don't have much motivation at the moment. I was invited by my sister to her house. Her son ( my nephew who is a lovely boy has a on line gambling problem. After I went home I emailed her thanking her for my stay and she replied accusing me of stealing a jar of coins that she had saved for her grandchildren from her bedroom. She said that I didn't stop there I found and stole 700 euros.
I have never even had a glance of her bedroom and have been unbelievabley accused of doing such a terrible thing that I haven't done. I can only think it was my nephew who took her money but when I phoned her she seems to be indenial that it could be him. She said to me when I visited her not to blame the fact that I appear to slow to answer her on my daughters death. ( I said my concentration was a bit off sometimes) then she went on to ask me what my next 5 year plan is. Anyway after her accusation of my theft of her money, she said she is not ever having anything to do with Mr again. I did feel sad that I didn't receive a Christmas card from her so it feels like another bereavement. I don't have any other brothers and sisters.
Jane we will be here for you please write to us as much as you need to. God bless!! Diane.
OMG Jane I am so sorry. You must be so heart broken. Please talk with anyone you can don’t handle this alone. This past year my teenage grandson attempted suicide it was devastating. I am also astranged from my children so have some understanding how hard this is. Scream , cry do what you have to to get the pain out. Keep talking on line too. Hugs and prayers to you.
Keep reaching out Jane. It helps to vent and it helps putting your thoughts on paper and sending it out for other's perspectives. If you can talk with a grief counselor or group it will probably help as well. Don't let the negativity from your sister add to your grief. Let yourself grieve thoroughly before dealing with her, it's going to take time and that time is different for everyone. My thoughts are with you.
oh my jane, i am really sorry to hear about whats happened with you daughter. you are very strong to even of wrote on this site about it, hopefully you are able to receive love and support in your daily life. we here on the forum are here to give out our support as well. all of our condolences go out to you, please do stay strong jane.
I like your honesty not the nature of your post or words, you're brave to say this, really sorry about your loss. There's no easy adjustment to this. Thinking of you.
Oh Jane I am so sorry. You can always come here and speak or vent. You will need to get things off of your chest. I’m sure that you are an honest person. Your sister will find out soon enough about her son. The truth always comes out. I wish you the best. I hope to hear that you have sought some kind of help or bereavement guidance.
i am so very very sorry! i dont even know what to say to you at least you reached out that is first step of recovery i just listend to a song called one day you will lady antebellum very good song!! it made me cry but its sooo true and it helps you feel better hang in there . i dont know what else to say to you i am so sorry!!! but definitely get support therapist, support groups, talk and talk away it helps!!! dont isolate yourself!! and try to do little things everyday to pick yourself up each moment im glad your on here i started yesterday and its already helping me alot great people on here and tons of support!!
My sister knows about her son. He had councelling and she does think he he has got better. But if it wasn't me, but than likely it could only be him.
What is so difficult is that she could possibly think I would do something to her like that
especially to think I would even care about money after my daughter died. Her son has a gambling addiction and was probably desperate for some money.