I have been on my own for too long and it is driving me up the wall! I have not been in a relationship for 21 years and I wonder if it is because of the way I look, or I am too "posh" for the world I live in. To explain, I wear my hair longer than most men because I like it that way, though several people have tried to point this out but I want to be my own man and not be influenced by others. I have suffered much from intolerance from my father and others who had charge over me, treating me as a fool, evenue though I am not. I suffered much from physical and verbal abuse, no wonder I have very low self esteem and feel that if I was in a raffle, I would be the booby prize. Life is very cruel, and I know I try too hard. Most people see through that and treat me as if had an incurable disease.
Hi Rocketrob, i think you may be looking in the wrong place for love, get out there the worlds your oyster! Just keep searching you’ll find the lady you like soon. Keep praying and looking.x
Hi I’ve been on my own for 10 years so I know how you feel you sound a nice person mary
Being a nice person has not got me anywhere. I am 63, on the shelf, feeling that love has passed me by. It is as if no-one accepts me for what I am. It is as the Bob Dylan song Maggie’s Farm states “I try my best to be as like I am but everybody wants you to be like them”. I don’the want to be boring!