Genital Herpes: Some tips for outbreaks

Here are some of my tips for GH because I know how horrible the first couple of outbreaks can be! 

First things first, a lot of people online have been posting about how depressed and sad GH has made them. You are allowed to be upset! But take a few deep breaths and remember, you are NOT alone! 1 in 4-6 people have this, so the next time you're in the office at work or on a bus just remember there's someone else just like you! Also just remember that 8-10 people with GH don't produce any symptoms, so there might be even more people closer to home who may have it and are yet to experience it! another thing, a lot of people talked about how disgusting they felt and it has put them off getting 'close to someone' my advice would be take your time getting to know someone, if they like you enough it won't even bother them! It's only contagious when it blisters anyway, and as I saw one person say, just treat it as an annoying skin condition tht just flares up. I know it can be hard not to get angry at someone too if you thought they have given it to you but remember that this virus may remain dormant for years and years so it may not have been a cheating partner at all, it could even have been from an coldsore. Trust me, as hard as it is now, it will get better 😀 I had to give myself a reality check and say you know what it's just like a coldsore in the most unfortunate place! Think how people in developing countries feel if they can't get anti virals and have to wash with bacteria infested waters which could lead to an infection! It's hard to come to terms with at first, but it could be a lot worse, just think how people who have HIV feel. 

Now my steps for treating GH-

1. Wash the area and clean it with pure water or salty water (Epsom salts are pretty good), keeping it clean will prevent infection.

2. If possible, have a few rest days. Stay in bed to avoid the friction of walking.

3. I SWEAR by these products and have to thank someone on here for telling me about them. They also said their doctor had 2 patients with GH and these products have prevented all OB! The first is Mellisa Lemon Balm Oil (I bought it off Amazon for £10/5 for 10ml, the real stuff is about £50 for 50ml) and licoris oil extract. Put the both of these of a cotton swab and rub all over, you'll see the wonders of it in a few days! 

3. Immune boost vitamins, too boost your immune system and calm down the virus (I use Oxford vitality OV immune boost from Amazon)

4. Just a general good diet (hardest part for me &#128514

I hope you all feel better soon, and remember, it could be worse!

Well I wished it was this simple for me as I already have a compromise immune system due to hiv that I've had since 1996. 2017 hsv2 comes along. I don't have the same process just because of that alone. I'm on a suppressive therapy of 2mgs of valtrex a day. Hsv2 tends to wreak a little more havoc in people with an immune system as mines. I talk all the necessary vitamins and lysine but it peaks it's ugly head out often .

Hello Sal48417,

​Thank you for sharing your experience.   It is really pleasant to read a post which is so positive.

​One of the main problems with having a Genital Herpes condition is the affect it can have on the patient's confidence and mental wellbeing (not to mention the obvious physical discomfort it can cause).  And I know from my own experience that worrying about the condition can cause outbreaks to become more frequent, so that doesn't help.

​A bolstered immune system will definitely help individuals, a good diet and plenty of distractions.   I think it's important to have regular hobbies in our lives so we can focus on other issues, away from the Herpes one and it is equally important for us to feel able to talk openly to our sexual partners about the condition.

​My girlfriend also has Genital Herpes and we're still not sure who gave it to who back in November 2016.   The fact is that it no longer matters.  We have it and we are managing it.   One day there will be a cure, but in the meantime we carry on having sex, watching comedies and pop down to the local Weatherspoons for a for a Beer and Burger Meal Deal.