Genital warts how contagious?

I’m a male who recently did something very foolish and paid for sex while I was very drunk.

At the time I noticed that the woman had these dark grey/brown coloured bumps / marks dotted around her Labia Majora area. I thought maybe they were freckles or birthmarks or something but afterwards started panicking that they may have been warts. I forget if they were just flat marks or raised bumps, it was hard to tell.

They appeared to be scattered about rather than clustered together, from what I remember.

We used a condom and I only lasted an embarrassing 1–2 mins, also I washed thoroughly when I got home 30 mins later … but I wonder if any of that will have even made any difference with something like this.

What is making me super anxious is that there is no HPV test for men, and symptoms can sometimes take many months to appear, so its not like I can get peace of mind at the GUM clinic

Does anyone know the likelihood of me having caught anything? Im so ashamed of myself and terrified that I’m gonna wind up single forever with an infection like this.

its not that easy to get/catch it … relax 