Hi,
I'm 18. Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex(playing around got out of hand, I know it was wrong). We were worried and took the morning after pill. She had a cramp and a very very small amount of blood in the next couple of days however she has had cramps and pains behind her boob recently. We're both 18 and we are pretty frightened. We are looking for opinions what we should do. I know the likelyhood of being pregenant is small however we're not risking it. Opinion?
Just to add I urinated prior to have sex so my pipe was clean but I know that some semen could be left there.
If she is pregnant I am the man in the moon, tell her not to worry, we have all been there and know what it's like to worry
You didn't ejaculate inside her and you took the morning after pill. She's probably having cramps and pains her her breasts due to hormones in the pill or most likely, because her period is coming soon.
It's not "wrong" at all to most of us - perhaps foolish under the circumstances. You did the very sensible thing with the morning after pill.
As charles says it is highly unlikely that she is pregant. But you have had a scare and many of us have been there. So what you must do for the future is get some reliable contraception. Either condoms carried with you at all times and used every time or that she gets something like the pill [to be used 100% properly] or one of the more modern methods.
The fact that you urinated before sex to "clean the pipe" would make no difference at all. Sperms are often travelling around immediately after arousal. When you ejaculate however there are millions released!