Has anyone here has that moment of realisation?

Signs and symptoms
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I'm looking for your expeience of that moment you suddenly find the determination to lose weight. Did you have this moment? I'm finding it impossible to stick to a diet and I know I make excuses for myself. Food allergies not allowing me near legumes, pulses, nuts and seeds, working too many hours to prepare decent meals, not having money to afford meats etc or a gym membership. 

I just want to be able to not fail...did any of you have that moment where suddenly it clicked and you were able to succeed? I want to find that moment so desperately.

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Yes, for me it happened after a holiday to Ukraine!

I came back lighter than I had set out, which I put down to the heat, and a lot of walking,but could not reconcile this with the amount of food and beer I had consumed. Talking to a physio, she worked out that the food was verylow in carbs, high in protein, so she suggested a change of diet.

Instead of taking cheese sandwiches (my favourite) and pies to work, I changed to a plastic box of salad with a little lean meat, and some fruit. At home it was a matter of portion control, one potato instead of 3/4/5 and so on.

In 18 months I lost 5 stone (70 pounds).

The incentive - a degenerating hip joint, and a necessity for hip surgery. I still needed the surgery, but recovery is better the lighter you are.

Hope this helps.

Graham - 🚀💃

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For me it was a moment of understanding that there is no magic pill or method which can help me reduce weight miraculously only consistent practice every single day First I have gradually replaced carbohydrates (bakery products sweets) for vegetables and fruits A source of protein can be boiled eggs cottage cheese chicken breast

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It happened to me in February 1992, on holiday in the Canary Islands. I had just bought a new video camera and my wife was using it as we sat round the swimming pool. I was sat on the edge, dangling my feet in the water, talking to another holiday maker at the time and on playback I was shocked that you couldn't see my swimming trunks for my belly. When I got home I immediately started to change my eating habits. I knew going hungry would fail miserably, so I decided to just cut out the bad things in my diet and eat some good alternatives. We already had a good normal food regime, fish, chicken, rice, pasta etc but puddings, cakes and biscuits had to go and I swapped all these for fruit. That was the only change I made and I never went hungry but almost two stones were lost before our next holiday in July. I started marathon running in 1996 and no matter what I eat I couldn't eat enough to put on weight. I joined a gym in early 2001, while still running, and my body fat content was 16% and my waist size had gone from a tight 34" to a comfortable 30". 

Some pointers to follow that I think important are:-

1)  Do not follow any crazy monotonous diet, e.g. cabbage, Atkins etc.

2)  Do not go hungry or you will snack on crisps or other junk snacks

3)  Don't be afraid of eating carbs, our body needs them for fuel

4)  Try to raise your activity level

5) Get weighed regularly and record it. It gives you the incentive to continue

6)  If you're desperate for a treat avoid fat. Jelly babies were my favourite

7) Have a day off from the normal meals occasionally. Boil an egg, have a jacket potato, eat some soup, have some wholemeal toast, scrabled eggs etc... 

8)  Whenever your feeling peckish, between meals, go for the fruit bowl. In it you'll find loads of things to satisfy yor hunger, bananas, apples, tangerines, pears, grapes, kiwis etc. Don't bother about the calories in fruit, they just don't count... from experience.

Do it... do it now and don't dwell on whether to do it or not. Success will take a week or two to kick in and then you're home and dry.

Best of luck... Alex

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Well done to all of you who have replied. 

I'm working on the substituting idea. Since when I'm hungry, I can't function. 

I've been eating oats for breakfast every morning rather than skipping breakfast or grabbing a croissant. 

 I also have a major fizzy drink addiction, but at new year I swapped it for water...and fizzy water when im looking for the fizz. It's the fizz I like more than the flavour of the drink I've realised. So soda water with no sugar is what I'm substituting my soda for. 

16 days in....8 lbs gone so far.  Need to stay motivated!