Have I caught something please help!?!?

Have I caught something? 2 weeks ago I went to get a massage from a lady (prositute) she gave me a hand job twice with lube and was quite vigorous the second time. She also licked my shaft a couple of times but no where near the head of the penis. less then 5 seconds each time After that washed myself like crazy as I new she had licked my shaft The next morning I had slight pain in my tip of the penis and frequent urination and the slight pain when I urinate it’s been 2 weeks and nothing has gotten better. Just realised a couple of days ago my meatus (penis opening) is inflamed and swollen… this morning i noticed clear sticky discharge i did have sex the night before tho not sure where i stand with this now my anxietys are making me think she put her mouth over my penis head,.. i would have felt /known the differsnce with this right?? Does this encounter sound like I caught gonorrhoea or any other sti? Every where I’ve looked it says no? is thid true Have had the swelling of the meatus before from a similar encounter but this time it feels like its lasting longer and more concerning my anxietys are going through the roof!

anyone??