Hi, I think I have Herpes.
I split with my wife after 20 years of marriage, 4 years ago. I meet someone and had un-protected sex, stupid I know. My wife and I then got back together a couple of years ago as she now has M.S. We don't have a sex life so she doesn't know about this.
I noticed some blisters under the head of my penis about 2 years ago which burst and healed quickly, I also experienced hot thigh's and also some back pain. Recently I have contracted red patches on the top of my penis, which don't hurt and urinating doesn't hurt either. I do have back pain but normally only on my left side. I also have fisures on my anus.
Are these typical of Herpes?
I know I ought to get check out but it seems with some of the GP's that peopleon here have asked they don't seem to be too bothered to help people.
Well it sounds like your body does a good job suprressing it. It sounds like an ob you are having and seeing a urologist may be better, as GPs don't know jack in my opinion about STDs. I get leg and buttock pain from an ob. Your nerves are being irritated from the virus traveling down them. Try not to stress too much about it or beat yourself up. I know easier said than done, bit you still coukd have got it using protection too, but I get what you're saying as that's how I got it and I hadn't had aex in over two yrs and this is what I have to show for it now.
Thanks feelbroken, I am trying to be calm about it at my age it's just adding to the other aches and pains that I get, having said that I have no idea what's causing what!
Thank you for you support and I haop things get better for you also
I would go see someone, so you can get on meds. Good luck and hang in there