Do yourself a huge favor, and stop taking your vitals. That messes with your head as much as googling your symptoms does. Vitals change throughout the day and night, even when you're sleeping. It simply means you're alive, and not an inanimate object. That's a good thing. lol
Now that you have a new doctor, let him/her give you the proper diagnosis, and treatment options, but for now it's out of your hands. In the meantime, maybe some mental imagery will help chill things out. Consider every symptom a rock and toss it in a box. When you meet the doctor, hand over the box of rocks (It makes a great gift), and let them deal with it. The way I see it, doctors signed up to deal with the problems of others, so let them have it. Eventually you'll have to help with your treatment, but in the beginning it's all up to the doctor.
Another thing, no more hook-ups with random people from a bus stop, and always wear a raincoat if you plan to get wet. lol My best friend died due to AIDS related complications, and it was a terrible death. He already had asthma to begin with, so when PCP (pneumocystis pneumonia) got its grip on him, it didn't let go. No two minute dip is worth all of that, and if need be, I'll show you all of the emails that pretty much documented the last few days of his life. Consider it tough love.
I'm no doctor by any means, but take a look at what you listed as your symptoms "getting left arm pain,wrist,elbow,chest pain, irregular heart beats,sweating and pure panic!" Not only are they anxiety/panic symptoms, they're also symptoms of a heart attack. That's why so many people go to the hospital only to find out it was a panic attack. In your case, I would guess that your father's heart attack is causing anxiety to mimic what he may have gone through. I ended up doing the same thing when my mom passed. I'd wake up gasping for air at first, then excessive amounts of saliva, then the globus sensation, which is where you feel like you have something stuck in your throat. My mom had cancer, and the tumor was on her epiglottis, which is in the throat. She had excessive amounts of saliva, the lump in her throat, trouble eating which lead to her getting a feeding tube. From diagnosis to death was only 6 months, and completely unexpected, even from her doctors. She was request Queen to listen to during radiation, and was always joking around with the staff. After her last radiation treatment they gave her a certificate that everyone signed, and had cute little notes on. On the way home she started singing "Drop It Like It's Hot" and was car dancing. lol The tumor in her throat was gone, but nobody knew that the cancer had spread to her heart, which is why her death was unexpected. I still get the lump in my throat feeling, especially on the left side. One doctor is trying to say it's from GERD or even silent reflux, another is saying it's because of an issue I have with my sinuses. Either way, I've had stomach and allergy related sinus problems for years, and I never felt like there was a lump in my throat. In fact, I had my gallbladder removed in May, so many of the stomach problems are gone. Soon I will also have surgery for a deviated septum, and a cyst in the maxillary sinus cavity. The physical issues can't be discounted, but I think the emotional issues play a bigger role. Anyhow, I'm sure you see the correlation between your father's death and your symptoms. It's just like the correlation between what my mom dealt with, and how my anxiety added new symptoms. When you have empathy for others, s**t happens because you care. It's better than being an emotionless block of wood though.
💜 Kim 💜