Heart break

well i havent done this for 6 years i havent suffered with anxiety and depression in a long long time im just absolutley heart broken. i was going to get married in 2022 to the women i thought loved me but seems that she didnt i have recentley recoverd from covid but as i was in the peak of it i got the dreaded message that she doesnt miss or want to be with me any more. no relationship is perfect but to top it off my best mate who i thought was my best mate doesnt want to speak to me anymore found out hes been meeting her behind my back since iv moved out i wouldnt of been to bothered but i have a daughter involed any advice would be great hope i dont go to my old ways

sorry this is happening to you. What do you mean when you say hope I don’t go to my old ways?
Anyway, for a relationship to be solid, each person must be in 100%. Otherwise it won’t work. We can’t make somebody want to be with us. You wouldn’t want to do that anyway because it wouldn’t work.
Sometimes it’s just not a good match. it’s basically not the right connection. be glad that you found out before you got married.
we all deserve to be with somebody that wants to be with us. I’m sure it hurts now but moving forward you can find somebody that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with her.
as far as your friend goes, he doesn’t sound like a good friend to me. probably best to MoveOn and find some true friends!
you can explain to your daughter that Sometimes relationships don’t work out but that everything will be OK. Reassure her that you will never leave her. . :heart:

thank you . yeah must not have meant to be but its okay i suppose im going to focus on my daughter and i from now on. i mean getting depressed again i dont want to fall into that trap again it was awful