I am soon last year of my 60's (age). I have recently fallen quite in love and she is ecstatic. However, we haven't seen each other in decades. Very very far apart (distance). She is same age -1 year. It blew up/blossomed so fast, over a few months. And so much "teenage-like" ... but love is a decision, and she made it. So did I. We have never been together sexually. I had put it out my mind -- it happened so fast and we speak different languages. My penis related warts, if there are any can't really be seen unless you know what to look for, I guess. I have not been sexually active. I was diagnosed decades ago. My last sexual experience (I am hetero), we had sex a lot... about a year or two or possibly 3, we weren't together anymore and she told me she had one. I do not know how it turned out for her. In our late 40's then. My new forever relation, thinks, so do I, that we are true long term love. She will visit from abroad to US in a few months. How and when do I tell her? I am buying her ticket in case she changes mind. HELP!!!???
Are these hpv warts? HPV can cause uterine cancer in women, and with her age, she does not have good immunity to eliminate the virus. You’re putting her at risk if you don’t tell her. There is treatment for warts, see a doctor and tell your girlfriend.