Hello Karen
Do you have IBS as well?
I was told IBS for years and might be this as well dont know.
I do know that I am never right, actually forgotten what normal people feel like inside and how their bowels are.
Most people go once a day dont they, well I am not like that. I can go for days without going and they other times go and keep going back to the toilet as cant get it out in one go, its like some is always held higher up and all wont come down at once.
If I take the sachets of fibre then its soft, but it most of the time it gets stuck behind the lump and I have to put my finger up to push on the lump so the gap is larger so some can come down. When I started to do this, a long time ago now, a few years ago, I thought this lump was a muscle, as I have never stuck my finger up there before, and why would one its not normal to have to do that to poo. But soon thought hang on its not right to have to put your finger up your bum to have to get some poo out. Sorry to sound crude.
Other times it comes rushing out of me and need to get to the toilet fast. I think its the fibre sachets they make you want to go all of a sudden after a while and I dont take them each day as feel if I did then I would have an incontinence problem.
I take them about every 2 to 3 days and take 3 a day, I should probably take them more, but my poo is soft on them, it just gets stuck behind this lump. I can go days without pooing as I said and then have say 2 days of pooing.
is this how you are your pattern?
I get very bad tummies I have one now, where it all feels so heavy in there, like water logged. That can back up to my breast bone and when it does that my breath smells,do you get that.
Thats when I think I should have taken the sachets each day maybe it would not happen then, think is it a back up of poo in me? I just dont know, but I think if I take the sachets each day afraid with going to work that I might poo myself or be in the loo too much.
Do you mind me asking how old you are?
Do you work?
Do most work with this condition?
I am 55 and have had 3 children, all vaginal births but all got stuck. One transverse across me and used they used the large Kielland forceps which can go up inside you, rotate the baby and bring the baby down.
That was my first child.
2nd child was stuck and they used the suction cap to pull him down.
3rd child was stuck and they used forceps.
All my children never engaged, think I am narrow.
I have to work to earn enough money. I am single left my husband after 30 years of marriage and had to go back out to work, I have a 16 year old living with me still so have to earn enough for us.
when I have the operation I will be on the sick and hope that will be about April time. Laparoscopic ventral mesh rectopexy. They are using animal mesh. I am going to give it a go as I dont feel well with this and it happens all the time. I am hoping that it will work. Have you heard of others that have had the operation?
The proctogram showed large enterocele and moderate rectocele but did not show rectal intussusception but the colonoscopy showed this. Had the colonoscopy the year before the proctogram. So if it showed on the colonoscopy rectal intussusception do I have it not sure as they said after proctogram it did not show intussusception?
The colonoscopy Report on 6 Feb 17 said
Perianal lesions: 3 haemorrhoids (2nd degree) and skin tag within
Diagnoses
Haemorrhoids and mild degree of rectoanal intussuseprion.
So when I say I have tummy pain and bloating is it spasms of IBS or is it any of the above? I dont know.
Please let me know how you are getting on.
Best regards.
Michele