Help! Does this look like herpes?

i use to get waxes and would get really bad ingrown hairs, so i switched to laser hair removal. before my first session i had unprotected sex and after i had really bad ingrowns on my left labia, it never burned when i peed and i dont ever remember getting sick. i also scrub pretty hard with an exfoliator brush down there. but even after two laser hair treatments my skin down there is still giving me issues. trigger warning i am posting what it looks like, could anyone try to identify what this might be? ; does it look like herpes or could this be something else. )

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is it itchy and do you have any watery discharge?