HELP I THINK I HAVE HERPES. Having thoughts of hopelessness

ive only been with one partner but we broke up for 5 months and he confessed he received oral sex from someone during that time. Apparently he has been monogamous since weve gotten back together and ive never noticed any sores/lesions on him

This past weekend we had EXTREMELY rough sex and i ended up with cuts immediatly in the same area i was tearing that i have posted below.

Please tell me what it looks like. i have no fever, chills or cough. They do slighty itch and burn.

if it is herpes i will fall into a severe depression. im currently on the brink of a mental break down

help me please someone

could be just a friction burn but go get tested cause it dont look too good

oh my, so does it look like herpes?

i also have bv snd the whiteness you see is cream

i uploaded another photo but its awaiting approval.

Any updates??