HELP! IS THIS HERPES OR WHAT???

i have no flu like symptoms, no burning when i pee, i feel an itch but nothing too server. i first noticed on dec 5 and now jan 1 . My doctor looked but was not alarmed by what she saw , i am afriad because i am 8 months preg . same partner 2 years .

the first picture is from a couple days ago and the second was tonight after i got out of the shower ( i rubbed too hard with the rag)

any feedback would be amazing!