Help me figure out what this is please I've been sexually active once

so I jerk off alot to much probably but about 6 months ago I jerked off for too long back to back and i had some sort of friction that turned into a bump and the girl i had sex with said she got tested and everything came back negative but im still concerned about the bump help please

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you need to get tested for herpes

agreed, might be herpes (but might just be scaring, a herpes test will clarify).

the bump was here before i was ever sexually active so???

you guys got me scared now i can have herpes? I only had sex that one time in my life and the bump was there before that

if you have oral herpes you can transfer it to your penis. Also, most STI testing do not test for herpes bc it is so common. many people test positive for it but never show symptoms