Ok so ive been going to this school for 3 years and i have around 10 main friends who i go around with at school, but none of them are girls. For the 3 years ive been here ive never been friends with a girl and i would like to start being more social and make more friends especially with girls but im scared to as they probably dont like me or dont know me. Im scared to add people on snapchat as they probably wont add me back or think im weird.
Hi harley, sometimes you have to make the first move, and sometimes you will be regected, unfortunately thats the way it is.
Just because we want to get to know someone, it doesnt mean they have to recipricate, but if you dont try, you wont know will you, and maybe just maybe some of these people are also thinking the same about you,.
Take things slowly and get to know just one person at a time, before you know it you will have a wide circle around you. You say you have 10 friends, thats alot, maybe if they have other friends you could get to know them.
Never be afraid of regection, just accept it as, oh well I tried and then move on, eventually you will have the friendships you want.....
They won't think your weird sweetie, people are not always as evil as we think
just make the move and go for it, change generally doesn't happen on its own. Even if you have 10 friends, that's still pretty good. You have nothing to be ashamed of