HELP what is this?? Herpes?

for context the last time i had vaginal sex was mid november, the person i had it with did not have any STDS. However, when I had sex with a different partner on October 31st, she had herpes but there was no outbreak. What i heard, herpes shows symptoms after 2-10 days. During November, i had no symptoms at all. Finally a week after I shaved in December I started itching all over the place and had white flaky sores around my genital area. I recently shaved and I had some more again

looks like dry spots moisturize its winter

it was not herpes in tested negative for it