Herpes? HPV? Syphilis?? Help

[](https://)Ive had these two bumps for maybe like 2 weeks. they dont itch nor do they hurt. occasionally i get an itch but i dont know if im just freaking myself out or not. It also doesnt hurt to pee at all but have experienced slight burning sensation throughout the days. i dont even know if my vagina is supposed to be this red or not. recently, ive had a loss of appetite while at the same time often feeling the need to go poop but cant seem to go much. my last partner's brother has herpes, could i have accidentally contracted it from him?

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heres another picture from a different angle

has your vag lips always looked the same as the picture?

i think so but at this point im questioning everything and don’t really know. im very paranoid and anxious