my boyfriend and i had sex about 4 times the other day and i noticed that i began to feel a tearing like pain after we tried for a 5th time. When i peed it burned in the area where this appeared. it looks like a sore but its kind of hidden around the opening of my vag. you can only really see it if i pull back my labias . it feels like i have a uti and its been going on for 3 days now. the pain hasnt gotten better and i constantly feel like i need to pee. i don’t know if it could be a friction sore or herpes? the pictrue is from the first time this happened back in january. But it happened again and it feels worse this time. its a lot more red and i have more than one abrasion someone please help!