Herpes or HPV wart?

Super stressed over protected oral and a brief intercourse with someone whos STD status is unknown. Had first HPV wart about 9-10 months ago that involved tingling feeling prior to the wart showing up. Now, with my high anxiety and regret, i have had similar tingling feeling followed by red dots on penis head. Also appears I’m having viral hives too. Is this genital herpes?

Anyone had this before? Red spots on tip of penis following tingling feeling? No blisters…

Anyone?