Herpes or not?

Many years ago I was diagnosed with Herpes (18 years old ) now 52 over the years things just got better and better and for many years have now I have only had small outbreaks which have been few and far between. To the best of my knowledge I have never passed this on to anyone. Over the last few months I sometimes get a rash the morning after sex with a new partner which does not itch or hurt in any way. Looks like herpes but does not blister,more like red spots and rashes....little confused......she says she has no problems and no signs of anything. Not seen a doctor as living abroad but will return to UK in 1 month and seek advise. Is it possible to transmit and get it back milder? Takes about 1 week then all is clear......could it be something else but why does my girlfriend have no signs yet it has happened a number of times to me the morning after.....Help

Hi not everyone has symptoms of herpes sometimes it takes years for an outbreak sometimes they may never have an outbreak and then some unlucky few get all the signs and symptoms

I was diagnosed in november and havnt really had another outbreak since my first but i find after sex im a little itchy and sore but never have any sores or blisters so i put it down to just the friction

But it is possible that she may have caught it just not had any symptoms theres still a 2% chance that it can be passed on even without an outbreak present but i would still go to the docs just to get seen incase it is something else x

What I'm saying is I have no signs whatsoever for very long periods in time but now the morning after sex with my new partner I get a herpes like rash..... Very quick to appear No pain No itching.....been together for over 2 years but only started showing up a couple of months back..... She says she has nothing wrong so what is causing this?

I also experience this rash type thing after sex?