Herpes outbreak or something else?

so about a few weeks ago I had my first herpes out break. it was awful! I was in so much pain and even the medication wasn' helping but finally it went away. I still had a few sores but they were healing and almost gone.

Anyway, I've always been really sensitive downin my lady area, every time I shave I always get razor burn or if I use bubble bath, I'm bound to get a yeast infection or UTI. So about a few days ago I shaved my lady parts and everything was all good, I put lotion on after my shower and I put some lotion close to my vagina but not on it..later that evening I was experiencing a lot of pain and discomfort. it felt/feels like razor burn or maybe even an allergic reaction to this new lotion but since I did have my first herpes (type 1 btw) outbreak not that long ago, I'm scared it's yet again, another break out I also have noticed my skin on my vagina and near bikini line is so dry! I do get dry skin when the weather changes but my skin on my vagina is literally flaking off but if j try and put lotion on it, it hurts/burns SOOOO bad.

ugh I'm just tired of having so many vaginal problems. I don't know what to do, I can't even have sex with my boyfriend because this "rash" or "burn" or "outbreak" gets so red and burns terribly. please help me and tell me your opinion on what it could be. I'm tired of making so many doctor appointments and it not getting any better so please just give me honest options on what you guys think it could be!!

thank you!! also I attached pictures on what it looks like

hmmmm not sure why it's not letting me post pictures..message me and I will try through there if you think you might be able to help me

It is different for everybody from what I can tell .

Like I haven't had an active outbreaks during my period, shaving, or stress ..

I've shaved a lot since my first break out and I've never had any issues .

But when I had my outbreak and I healed I was in quite a lot of pain while having sex I guess because it's so sensitive down there or sometime after about 3 weeks the feeling and everything went back to normal ..

I get SOOO itchy sometimes too .

I think I might be having an active break out right now as we speak but I'm not sure I can't really tell ...

How do you know when you are having an active outbreak ? Or you only had one so far to know ?

I get super itchy and then I'll start noticing sores it's terrible I hate it so much do you have type 1 or 2??