My bf refuses to accept the fact that he MAY have had the herpes virus prior to this first breakout. He has 3 small bumps at the base, and I have several around the vaginal and anal areas. All I hear from him is, "I don't think you've been 100% honest with me," when I indeed have been about being exclusive with him for 10+ months. If this is an initial breakout for both of us, why is his so minimal??? I wonder if it has been dormant in him for a while? The bumps came up 5 days ago. We are awaiting tests. Seeing the virus takes weeks to show up in blood, wouldn't a (+) result show that he indeed had it? I feel this is the only way to prove my innocence and prove him wrong! (even though there should be NO reason to have to do that in a relationship) Help!!!!!
Blood tests are not always reliable for herpes thats why it is best to get swabbed straight from the blisters then the test is more reliable. I think he should sit down with a doctor and talk to them but if this was his first outbreak it would be worse maybe he had it a while ago and thought it was something else like thrush i think thats what my boyfriend done he used to get sores years ago but thought it was thrush.
Im sorry if i sound harsh but he needs to stop being so childish i know its hard and it is very emotional but it does happen he needs ti face it its not life threatening and it is very managable its more common then what people think x
No, not harsh at all, that's exactly what I was hoping for. He told me how his doctor said that it's a small bump in the road, just live on. But he does nothing but point fingers.
Well he cant point fingers no one will ever know whi it came from or when dont let him put you down and make you feel worse give it a few weeks you realise its not too bad when you feel an outbreak coming in you take meds and sorted you will both be fine x