Herpes? Some tingling/itchiness/irritation

Ex-boyfriend cheated a TON 6 months ago. He swore he was clean, but I’m suspicious.
I’ve been experiencing extreme anxiety over my sexual health due to his infidelity, and I have lost my sense of what is normal.

i was feeling kind of itchy around my anus/vagina for the past 2 weeks, especially yesterday.

i ran a race 2 days ago, so i’m not sure if this is chafing or an outbreak.

any advice helps. thank you.

could do with some more pictures its hard to make out whats going off there, your symptoms do describe Hsv, however the chafing could also be an option if you’ve ran a race with tight leggings and underwear on

hi, i tried to upload a better photo here

only way to know is to get a swab test done

That looks like a tear. Try applying Vaseline