Hi I️ am a female and about 2 months ago I️ had a small encounter with a guy friend . Basically what happened was , I️ was on my period and had in a tampon and had no intentions on having sex with him which I️ didn’t but here’s what happened . Lots of frottage (genital rubbing) to the point where he transmitted trichomoniasis to me which I’ve heard u can get from frottage (correct?) but that’s not my concern . Basically as he got more comfortable he proceeding to try to enter my vagina but I️ stopped him. It go to where he was maybe pushing against my Tampon for about 3-5 seconds not long at all cuz I️ stopped him, he didn’t try to penetrate or is that considered it? I’m not sure but I️ don’t beleive so cuz I️ more so just felt pressure of him trying to go in not actually being in but if he was it had to be just a tiny bit .. but I️ stopped him after I️ noticed and pretty much that was it , we didn’t have sex or nothing jus more so pressure on my vagina opening where he was trying to get it . But basically about a month later it was rumors going around that he gave HIV to his ex girlfriend and now I’m super scared !! Am I️ at risk? Could it have transmitted this way? I️ kno u have to have sex which we didn’t but this brief thing that’s happened jus scares me how close I could have been if he did have it , not to mentiOn before the frottage accured I️ did notice some Pre-cum. But please help me!! What are my risk ! I’m going crazy I️ have nightmares about it I️ have anxiety about it and Iran jus awful cuz I️ can’t get into the docto right now please let me kno ur opinions, THANKYOU
I am not sure that you can get trichomoniasis through frottage as frottage is the practice of touching or rubbing against the clothed body of another person in a crowd as a means of obtaining sexual gratification. Were you both undressed and did he actually have skin to skin contact?
If there was skin to skin contact then I would imagine that there is still a small chance that HIV can be passed on through contact with an open wound on the penis or contact with the urethra or rectal membranes.
I would definitely make an appointment to see the GP as you need reassurance. Do you have any symptoms that anything may be wrong?
My opinion is mean and assuring but let me assure you first.
I wouldn't go on as to worrying about hiv. Even if he did and didnt cum in you it would be like 1 in a 10000 chance of ut actually transmitting. My ex who was my fiancee cheated on me with a man and i didnt get no hiv but i would get checked in 3 months cuz thats the window frame for a piece of mind. Also the same with stis. I dont think rubbing would give you trich. However rubbing can give you herpes,genital warts, i think syphilis im not sure but i think it can, and hpv. But the little amount of pre cum it could be possible but low. But i would get checked because some people are unlucky and still get hiv.
And also no offense your gross. Why would you do this with a guy friend? Thats like girl he is going to talk and tell his friends and his friends going to try to be your frienf because your offering the kitty to your friends thats like why ypu worried about hiv and stuff if you put yourself in risk for it thats like me having unprotected sex trying not to get pregnant without being on bc. You sow what you reap you wanna go being a hoe you expose yourself to situations like these. Im talking to you from experience. Not with me but a friend she did the same cheated on her husband with a guy friend he gave her clamydia. Not worth it next time educate yourself about sex before doing it. I had a scare with hiv because my fiancee had cheated on me not because i was sleeping around. Im telling you this as advice.
It's up to her who she has sex with, not you.
OBVIOUSLY. but at least be smart about it. If your going to have unprotected sex with someone your not in a relationship with whose probably having sex with another girl as well. dont be chicken and crying when you know what you exposed yourself too. Just advice. After what happened to my friend. He stopped talking to her after she stopped giving her any. Some guys just dont care . havung safe sex doesnt just consist of wearing condoms its also making sure your profile is clean. Or you would have sex with a guy without asking or looking at his profile? I dont. I know its her choice but cmon she can do better than having sex with friends-.- .
Wifh a friend. You think guys dont talk? They do and a lot.
thankyou that was unnecessary of her .
we didn’t have sex!!! Jus unprotected frottage that’s why I’m here !! If it was sex I️ would know I️ was at risk highly
It was unprotected naked frottage . He never actually went inside me but he did try , mean his penis did touch like my open but he didn’t actually go inside .
You keep saying unprotected sex ? Did u not read it clearly it says clearly what exactly happened .
Well you asked for opinions i said mine.. So? Yes but you were talking about pre cum and him trying to get his thing in you. All i am saying is be smarter of who you rub genitials with-.- wear a condom next time but know your still exposed to hpv. And check his profile it would be a shame if you caught something because your putting yourself in this situation. Like girl you can do better than having sex with your friend especially if you heard rumors. I would take this as a time to be smarter about frottage.
I️ just wanted to know my risk for hiv transmission that’s all
Or any sexual contact in fact. Just be more careful.
Well it's relatively low. Though i still recommend you get checked and maybe not have sex until your clear ..the 4th gen can tell you in like 2-4weeks if you have it or not. But you should be worried about herpes hpv warts and hpv and syphilis too. I would be more worried about that then hiv. If you read more about hpv certain strains cause cancer. Though most of the time it clears on its own some times it wont and then you get dysplasia. Though cervical cancer is usually slow growing. There has been some cases where ladies get it in a year times. Its scary to think about. But that doesnt mean dont have sex but even just genitials touching hpv can spread like that so thats something id worry about. Though most the population has it already has it
What is hpv? And the only reason I’m worried about hiv is because I’ve heard later on he had it . Idk
I️ believe my sister got that from her boyfriend when she was pregnant .
And what about trichomoniasis, planned parent hood said it’s very effective to the vulva, isn’t that rubbing because he really did not go inside if anything maybe not even half his penis he was jus trying but I️ stopped him immediately
Hpv is the most common sti. Because its so easily transmitted. He needs to get tested. I hope he didnt already know and didnt tell you. But get checked. If your 21 i recommend getting your pap done as well.
You need bodily fluids for trich to transmit so your safe if he didnt get any body fluid on you
No I️ did get trich . I️ went to the doctor and was tested for stds and that’s what came back positive . There was present Precum a little bit .