I am 12 days on from my holep. Removal of catheter through operation site was certainly a lively moment, but .... over very quickly. The next 2 hours were vexing as I couldn't pee a drop, and my heart sank at the thought of it going back in. Gradually I could pee 6 drops, then 50 ml, then 100 ml, then allowed to go home - I'd only had one night in. Pee pain very bad first night at home; I learnt to keep drinking water overnight; everything lies in keeping the pee dilute, and to heck with frequency issues. Blood in pee ceased within 1 day; I was wearing something in pants to catch leaks (thanks, wife) and noticed that was catching the odd reddish drop, and a little leaking pee (not much) but main pee into pan never noticeably red. Mild leakage after each pee, but the urgency thing never led to my wetting myself. Did find that at first, frequency was quite an issue, if sitting down, when got up, felt I almost had to run to loo. Solution ironically is stand and walk around more; that helps you last longer between pees. No idea why, just does. I found kegel exercises uncomfortable; had done some before op. Last night, annoying spike up in pee pain, no idea what going on, but today, able to hold on for ages; hoorah, not going all the time. And max flow rate must be at least 14 ml/second now, maybe more. Able to void in one "go" mostly; it does slow down at end, but for so long I've needed to have 2 or 3 "goes" to empty. today I seem not to. Feels empty once empties. As of today I no longer feel obliged to drink 2 litres a day (+night) to stave off infection. Almost normal now, except that pee pain comes and goes; sometimes (including today) just enough to make me shake a little in pain, but taking nothing for it. The strong after-pain after some early pees - I remember one at day 4 especially well - has gone now; just some pain deep inside at beginning and mid-pee (varies from pee to pee, oddly). I would certainly recommend the op, so far. Not allowed sex for 4 weeks, so no ED test or RE test thus far - but there are some signs I won't have ED. NB have seen no clots, no tissues, in pee at all; maybe that is to come, as was warned of it (I've read that there's a peak at 4 to 5 weeks, as some internal soft scabs come off). For what it's worth : age 49, 11st5lbs, 22cc prostate. That may make it easier for me than some, then again I've read of men with no pain ever post HOLEP, and I've read of men with what they say is bad pee-pain for 50 days, then it stops quite suddenly. Void volume currently about 250 ml (I pee into a 210 ml paper cup sometimes, to measure it). Urologist about my age claims to pee 750ml on a full bladder, assuming that's typical, am aiming to hold on for longer and longer now to stretch the bladder a bit, it'll be less muscly than before, and hope to make it more elastic so it'll maybe hold more. Not that that really matters much. Increasing capacity utilised, just might help me finally reach goal of sleeping through whole night, given no caffeine at all (only water now), no alcohol (most of time), and stop drinking ~7 pm (not yet, need to keep watering it a bit post-holep for infection control; but soon).