Thanks Sue.An,
I already saw a surgeon for one eye (4 months ago) ... the other eye still needs to be worked on. But I'm not happy with the way things have been going. It might be too late (or too stressful) for me to change surgeons at this point ... especially with how frustrating everything has been up to this point.
I'll try to be short here. As I said in my previous reply to ethel, I had a strong referral from friends, so I went with that surgeon. His internet ratings were pretty bad, but I went anyway ... thinking like you, in putting more weight on the positive ratings for the same reasons you stated. After the surgery didn't go the way I expected it to, I've been doing all kinds of second guessing. And of course the terrible reviews I saw stand out in my mind. (By the way, I went with the surgeon's recommendation ... which was the Symfony lens. I never expected the side effects to be so severe ... and to my memory, those side effects were never mentioned by the surgeon as something to be overly concerned about, if they were mentioned at all. I don't remember the surgeon ever talking about the concentric circles or the halos while watching movies/TV or the "background milkiness" that I see when there is strong contrast on movies/TV. That was all a surprise after the surgery was over).
I tried very hard to do research before the surgery. It's difficult when you don't know anybody personally who has had that type of surgery. (I did know one person who had a multi-focal lens but it wasn't a Symfony and she wasn't a real close friend ... hardly ever saw her). I asked my eye doctor and the people at the surgery center for people to talk to who have already had this surgery. They couldn't help me because of privacy laws. So I had absolutely nobody to talk with ... only the surgeon's recommendation. I had no legitimate reason not to trust him.
I don't really want to dwell on my situation here. I just thought "how to find a good doctor/surgeon would be a good topic to discuss and that people might have good suggestions for anybody who might be looking.
To answer your questions:
I have had to pay for every visit I've had with a doctor or surgeon so far ... even consultations. Health insurance is really screwed up in the USA. This is costing me thousands of dollars. Enough said.
1. I told my optometrist the surgeon I would be seeing, and was told that they use him and I shouldn't be worried about it.
2. I did look up ratings on the surgeon. One rating system had him at 2.3 stars out of 4 ... hardly stellar. The other rating system had him rated as the #1 ophthalmologist in the area. Again ... what do you believe? I thought like you did, and put less weight on the negatives.
3. My friends were the ones who (strongly) recommended my surgeon to me.
4. Again, I tried very hard to find people to talk to who had the Symfony lens, but didn't have any luck. That was very frustrating!
(By the way, my surgeon didn't even tell me what type of lens he was recommending ... I found that out on my own after repeated calls to the eye surgery center).
That's only a part of the frustration entailing this whole episode. Like I said earlier, I don't want to dwell on my personal situation. I've been doing that enough on my own over the last 4 months ... I could use a break from that kind of thinking. But to help others where I/we might have stumbled can only be a good thing, right?