Hi Kathleen, thank you for the compliment re. being an "excellent source of information". I really don't think I am. I't's just that, when working, I spent 37 years reading and evaluating medical and presenting some psychological research papers (mostly in the area of Cardiology). You then get used to fast reviewing and moving on . . .
Added to that then was the personal impetus, which I never had before, of my own diagnoses of severe OP two years ago. I can honestly say that some of my reading here was with my hand over my eyes - not wanting to see the bad bits!! OP hit me really hard indeed as I was a very active soul and for a while I felt so vulnerable and afraid that my bone structure (esp.spine) was going to collapse in on itself leaving me in a pitiful heap! May sound funny now - but not then. So the reading continued. . .
My husband was hugely critical of this. He has had a number of health issues, goes (eventually) to the doc., takes the treatment and that's it. The fact that someone (me) would want to research in detail about a condition TO HIM smacked of a person having to be in control all the time and is a more than a bit pathetic. His attitude is that life throws you the odd curve ball, you get some help and then just deal with it. It's what makes your short life varied and exciting. Nothing is certain. (He is a very gifted artist and his head works very differently to mine).
Anyway, funnily enough, after all my reading, debating on this forum, and above all worrying I concluded that the best approach is the following: 1)
See a recommended specialist (after physical tests are done) and listen to advice about treatments. 2) Think it over for a little while and write down questions. 3) Back to the specialits to discuss. 4) If unsure, get a second opinion. 5) Start treatment and get reviews every 6 months or so.
Boring, I know. And STOP WORRYING. Isn't that what I'm paying my specialist for?
So now I find myself in a much better place. In essence, I have stopped trying to be my own doctor and it's a big relief. . . . . The bones have improved after a year of Forteo and I'm now on my second year of this and I feel positive enough. Above all, I realise that I could have been diagnosed with a far worse condition and feel lucky also.
Kind regards Katlhleen, J