Summary:
46 yo female.
Childless by choice, happily married 15 years.
FIRST uti Ever was in my 30s and clearned up fast with antiobiocs
Full hysterectomy 1.5 years ago due to adenomyosis and no desire to have kids
Taking hormones from gyno
Went through three urologists until I found one I liked.
Symptoms mostly -- really bad burning AFTER urinination (I tend to avoid it! Because it starts the cycle).
Extreme bladder/ pain. Want to go to the bathroom and just get a dribble
Some urge incontinence when heading to toilet.
Burning type pain after intercourse
Take cranberry suplement, pro biotic, and avoid all soda and citric acid. It's depressing. Using a strict UTI friendly diet.
No leakage-type issues
Had a cysto - nothing bad was discoverered
Using oxybutynin 2x a day. Tried veriscare and every glass of drug wih annoying side effects and no real relief.
Observe good sex hygine, wear proper clothes. Rarely have penetraion these days: I get a flare up after intercourse! Seeing a pellvic physical therapist twice a week to work on the pain during sex and more bladder control.
The last two times I visited my urologist, results came back negative, but after going to the lab, three days later I get a call -- infection, need to do
three days of Bactrim
My next follow up with Uro is 2 months so I asked for a lab slip to just test my urine in about two weeks.
Huge financial strain -$60 for all uro visits, $35 two times a week for PT. Plus my work hours and dropping rapidly since I want to stay home.
So here I am. I work from home and am afraid to leave the house. My recent BIG family dinner had me visit the restroom 8 times. It's so embarassing. Nothing comes out anyway - just more pain. But I feel like I am going to have an accident ALL the time. Peeing makes it worse!
So I avoid peeing in public because I don't want a flare up.
I have considered bladder botox but that terrifies me, and I don't know that it will help since my issue is not mostly bladder control.
This is ruining my life, my marraige, my work. I am afraid to go to work meertings. I am often up in pain if I have to go to the bathroom middle of the night.
I can see my uro again, but I don't knwo what to tell her. I get a shrug often. She offers botox and the electro stim thing. I have tried every "class"of drug.
I feel like I am constantly on a round of Bactrim. I have another antiobiotic to take on days when I have intercouse (rare now).
I apoligze this is so long, I am just praying soneone has a similar situation,
Thank you.