I went for my pre-assessment today, and have left the hospital wondering if I am doing the right thing in going ahead with the surgery, as the doctor has painted a very bleak picture!
The op is due to take place on the 18th Dec (not ideal timing with Christmas on the horizon!) He told me that I would not be able to do anything for at least 2 weeks, and to live off laxatives.
I am wondering if I would be better having the haemorrhoid's banded, as that was an option.
I just thought surgery might be the best option as it would get rid of them for once and all!
I am in no pain, or discomfort, but they do bleed, and I did have the same problem 7 years ago (when I decided to leave well alone!) The thought of surgery absolutely terrifies me, but I am more concerned about what happens when I get home!
Help!
Mary
Hi Mary!
I can really understand your feelings. I myself had the hemorrhoids removed a few months ago with the THD method. Surgery was also an option for me but I got a 3 year old and a 5 year old at home. There is NEVER a good moment for a surgery....That's the main reason why I decided for the ligation even though that means that there's a chance they might come back. I only had to stay one night in the hospital and after 5 days I was almost back to normal (except when I had to go to the bathroom...). I think whatever way you go, you're not going to regret it, even though it's a bit a shame for Christmas. I'm sorry I can't tell you what happens after the op. Maybe you can have see if THD is an option for you. I hope someone else can give you more information about the surgery!
All the best
Holly
Hi Holly
Thanks so much for your advice!
I knew I was so shaken up after coming out of the hospital last week, that I had to think long and hard about going ahead with the operation.
In the end, I emailed the Consultant (that was how desperate I was!) I just think that the timing (over Christmas) wasn't right for me, and though my chldren are grown up, it would still have meant putting Christmas on hold!
I had a call from the hospital on Monday, informing me that the op had been cancelled! (at the request of my Consultant). He wants to see me in clinic to chat through the other option (banding). I am definitely going for that option, before going down the surgery route. At least, if that fails, I will feel I have given it a chance.
I think maybe I was too quick to jump on the surgery option (to get rid of them once and for all), and didn't give the consequences of the op the consideration that I should have.
Wish you well!
Mary
I'm glad to hear it all turned out ok for you! Sounds like a very good plan to me and I believe you found a great consultant who takes his time and doesn't try to push you into anything you don't want.
I'm sure it's all going to be alright! At least now you can enjoy Christmas with the family! :-)