I was jus told I Hav gh n I'm jus so stress out cuz idk how I got this and idk how 2 tell my partner cuz I dnt want him 2 leave me. Like it hurt wen I walk and wen I wipe myself down there I'm waitn on my results 2 really tell me but I'm jus prayin I don't cuz idk wat I'm do like my life bout 2 b over
Just tell your partner. Do what's right..
Definitely tell your partner....I know it seems your life might be over but trust me its truly not. I think its normal to feel that way because I did. But begin researching and getting all the education you can on this virus. Because trust you will not get all the answers from your physician. If someone tells you something don't take their word for it. Research it!! Remember you experience is not theirs.
A note to *all* females who experience a first outbreak. Please stop thinking that you are to blame!!
Until and unless tests show otherwise, your bf or sex partner could well be the source of the infection, and most likely is in a good number of cases. Why do so many women immediately want to blame themselves and not even consider their partners??
Secondly, you seem young, and if so, it's most likely Type 1, which isn't nearly so bad, besides the first outbreak.
Tell your partner! It may seem like the end of the world but it'll be alright I cried for days felt so low but with a great amount of support that i got from telling my partner it felt better. Just understand there is someone out there who will love you for you! It may or may not be him but someone will and everything will be okay. Don't over think and stress just wait on your results.
Thanks a lot that help I jus dnt no wat 2 do like dis never happen 2 me b4 I jus pray it somethings else like is it possible dat it somethings else
But how I dnt want him 2 think oh I dis dat n da 3rd cuz I didn't cheat n I dnt want dis relationship 2 end 😔😔😔😔
No problem I've been there and so has the most of us. Hearing that you may have it your never prepared for those words. What are your symptons If you have any? Because with me there is probably a chance I've had it for so long and never showed any signs till maybe 2 weeks ago And my first outbreak wasn't so bad. I'm much better now and dealing with it day by day. Your life isn't over yes you could have it but it doesn't mean the end of the world, you'd be surprised how many people have this and never even know it. Just take it day by day.
Oh wow but these marks round my vagina area n 1 spot n they hurt only wen I walk but it jus been on mind heaving like idk how 2 fix my mouth n tell my partner cuz I dnt want him 2 judge me or leave it jus 2 much
I had the same thing, I thought it was just a razor bump but then it turned into a blister and I got it tested and tested positive for herpes. But just wait for your results before you tell him. I waited until I knew 100% and told my bf
Ok and how did it go wen u tld him if dnt mind me asking
What type 1 n u can only get dis sexually transmitted or other ways
I told the guy I'm seeing and we've both done our research and he's okay with it and we still sleep together. Do research girl! It helps so much and I chose suppressive therapy to help avoid outbreaks and help with transmission. In the beginning its tough but honestly sometimes I forget I have it. There is a HUGE stigma on herpes from society but jts really just a skin condition. Hang in there it gets easier!!
I did my research it said it dnt gotta come frm sexually transmitted u can get other ways n how can I get n dat kind of therapy but I'm so scared 2 tell him cuz I feel bad bout it n dnt no his reaction
Usually it's from sexual contact it's rare to get it from things like a toilet seat or towel and things like that. You can it from oral sex as well if they have a cold sore. If you tell him and he stays then that's awesome and he needs to do his own research to help him feel better. Ask your doctor about suppressive therapy. I take two acyclovir everyday and haven't had a breakout since my first outbreak back in February. That's why sometimes I forget I have it. Every guy I've told so far has accepted it. Not every guy will and that's okay. If they don't accept it then move on. It will be hard but things get easier i promise you that. It's a shock in the beginning. I remember throwing myself on the floor thinking no one will accept me and that is far from the truth. Being honest about it shows a lot of strength and sometimes it can help u become closer to that person. It will be 100% okay. I promise
It went good, he comforted me and told me he would be there for me through whatever that he wasn't gonna let that get between us, when you know your results just be honest with him.
Dis kind of a big relief Ima try n tell my partner n c wat happen I jus hope he accepts it
Ok I jus prayin it not I let u no 2mar
Good luck let me know what happens. No matter what even if he goes then it will be okay! Relationships aren't all about having sex. It kind of shows you the people who are in it for you or the sex
One more thing when u 1st Hav a outbreak wat do it look like at 1st