Gonna be blunt here. Recently got into a relationship. Up until this point I was a virgin. masturbated nearly every day. To the point it was a ritual with little pleasure. I never used any kind of lubricant. it was always a dry rub. There were times i would go at 4 or more times a day. i was always able to ejaculate. Now that I'm in a relationship I'm finding that i cant ejaculate during vaginal sex. It not for lack of trying, We honestly went for about an hour straight and still nothing. i felt like i was getting close a couple times but not close enough. I fear that it may be because i was overdoing things when i was single but I'm not sure. I never noticed until recently but i cant feel light touches on the shaft. As far as i know I'm not diabetic, and i have no other health concerns that I'm aware of. Any advice or ideas would be welcome.
I’m thinking that because of all the ejaculations onto you stomach or into you hand, etc. for so long, it might take time to be able to release elsewhere. I’ve heard it suggested to try masturbating with your sex partner and ejaculating onto or near the vagina. it’ll happen, just keep trying, and let go of any performance stress.